Text: "It is better to dwell in the corner of a housetop, than with a brawling woman in a wide house." If there is anywhere that patience, gentleness and longsuffering should be abundantly exhibited, it is in the home. It would be informative for us if we would consider the word "brawling." That kind of woman is one that likes and thrives on strife and contention. She can never be satisfied with what comes her way in life; she has the misconception that everything in life is to be perfect and she tolerates no contradiction to her will or her wishes. The writer of this proverb says it is better to be in a quiet corner on the housetop than to be with a fussy woman in a wide, spacious, and elegant room inside the house.

I. Reasons For Domestic Unrest- There are several which could be given but I suggest to you the following. First, a defective fellowship with God. Most of the time a husband and wife are at each others throats, irritable and edgy, because of not walking close enough to God. Secondly, a distorted view of real life. Things in real life are not perfect. When we demand perfection out of one another, then we forget that we possess our own personal set of imperfections and flaws. Thirdly, a denial of the proper place in the home. Old Testament teaching and New Testament teaching both underscore the role of the woman is one of submission to her husband. Ephesians 5:22 says the woman is to submit to her husband as she does unto the Lord. She is to place herself under his authority as head of the home.

II. Results Of Domestic Unrest- Children are hurt when there is domestic unrest in the home. They deserve a peaceful environment in which to grow up. In addition, the church is hindered. It is a bad testimony upon the church when a couple who professes to be saved cannot get along together. Finally, Christ is grieved. It grieves the Lord Jesus Christ when we are filled with our selves rather than with the Holy Spirit of God (Eph. 4:30).

III. Resistance To Domestic Unrest- Number one, have an understanding spirit. Number two, know your place in the home as a husband or wife. Number three, keep your eyes on the Lord Jesus rather than on the faults of your partner. Jesus is perfect but your marriage partner will not always be so.